Product Name: Marriage Reset Intensive – Save Your Marriage Fast
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Discover the secret that transformed our broken relationship into that crazy in love couple who enjoys mutual trust, respect, true friendship, and amazing intimacy, and how it can do the same for you.
(Even if you are the only one trying!)
My was voice cracking as I nervously weaved back and forth in my chair.
I had just taken a long deep pained-breath, set my heart out on the table, and bared my deepest longings to reconnect.
She just stared at her hands without any sign of emotion.
After a pause that seemed like an eternity, I thought she was going to say something, but then her gaze would slowly drop again.
Finally, she looked up and in a soft flat voice said,
“I’m tired. I think I might go visit my family.”
The truth is I think I might have preferred that she got angry and said,
“I hate you. And I’m miserable in this marriage.”
There is a soul-crushing, hopeless emptiness that develops in your stomach when you love someone who doesn’t seem to love you back anymore.
And the worst part is, you can’t understand how that’s even possible.
You just want to scream through the tears,
“Don’t you feel anything? How does everything we’ve been through now count for nothing?”
You tell them you love them.
You vow to change and become who they want you to be (even though you aren’t really sure who that is.)
You apologize again and again for the mistakes you’ve made.
You promise you’ll never hurt them again. But nothing seems to get through.
It feels like your whole world is slipping through your fingers.
Looking back now, I should’ve seen it coming.
I should’ve known by the look on her face that night three years earlier.
It was one of those relationship-defining moments.
You know, those moments when everything changes forever.
The moments that become reference points for the rest of our lives, where we can easily separate the before and after.
For Kayti and I, it was December 14, 2001.
That was the night I crushed her spirit.
It was the night I held my new baby girl for the first time, yet, while I adored my precious baby girl,
my wife sat across from me humiliated and demoralized.
I’ll never forget the look at her face.
It wasn’t sadness. We were beyond that. It was something else.
It was something more like despair.
Something like that numbness that lingers when there are no more tears left to cry.
We hadn’t been married that long. But now the joys of our fairy-tell wedding, and the plans we had now seemed like a dream forgotten. I could still remember her sweet smile as she looked up at me through her wedding veil, with more love and adoration than I had ever known from a woman.
She pledged her life to me that day.
She pledged her love and her dreams of starting a family to me.
She wanted a baby more than anything. And God knows we tried. We tried fertility treatments, home remedies, crazy positions. You name it and we had tried it.
only to suffer a miscarriage.
Now here we were, and I was holding my precious baby girl in my arms…
and my wife was sitting across the room, eyes dull and lifeless,
yet every once in a while smiling politely as if desperately trying to mask the humiliation.
After that night, we tried to move on. I got visitation of my daughter.
Kayti did her best. She helped take care of her.
Even so, you could still see the brokenness in Kayti’s face longing for a child of her own.
For a while it seemed like we were doing OK. We had children together, and a successful business.
But when you go through such gut-wrenching soul-killing emotional trauma, the pain takes root, and bitterness grows like a cancer that you don’t even know is there.
And so, we just grew apart until it was like we were just roommates. We hardly ever spoke. When we did, it was just “business”.
We almost never intimate.
We were headed straight for divorce.
Imagine a couple driving down a winding mountain road and their brakes go out.
The car is picking up speed as the driver frantically struggles to keep it on the road, a curve becomes too tight and they lose control.
When the car finally comes to a stop, it’s resting dangerously halfway off a cliff.
Teetering back-and-forth as if it could fall at any moment.
The driver sits there motionless because he knows one wrong move could send them to their death.
Their future hangs by a thread with everything hinging on what he does now.
That’s what it felt like that night when I asked her if she loved me. I felt helpless.
It was the worst moment of our lives, but it was also the best.
(And I know that sounds weird, but you will understand when I tell you the rest of the story.)
Here’s a message my wife posted on Facebook on 10/20/2017 on our 16th wedding anniversary.
I am going to tell you the rest of the story, and about how things got worse before I discovered the secret that saved our marriage,
but first I want to tell you why I am sharing such intimate details with you now.
Hi, I’m Dustin and that pretty girl in the photo with me is my wife, Kayti.
This is the first time we have shared our painful story with anyone. Family and friends know bits and pieces, but not the whole story.
And I assure you, until now, NO ONE has ever seen some of these photos. I am sure you can imagine why we would be hesitant.
Because I know what you are going through. And because a friend recently shared with me how her marriage was falling apart. She had been served with divorce papers and her husband said he just wasn’t “in love” with her anymore.
She felt like she was sinking into a dark tunnel, and couldn’t find her way out.
I wanted to help. But all I found were books and courses from relationship experts and marriage counselors, many of which had never even been married.
Here’s the thing. They were all teaching the same thing. And yet I read somewhere that divorce rates are about 50%. Divorce rates for second marriages are even higher.
So, either the the statistics are wrong, or the “experts” are wrong!
It can make you want to give up. Don’t give up.
If this can work for Kayti and I, it can also work for you to save your marriage.
After you hear the rest of our story, you’ll know in your heart that this is what you’ve been looking for.
You’ll know that the same secret that saved our marriage can work for you too.
OK. Now, back to the story.
I can still remember what it felt like lying in bed at night in our king-size bed. Lying on my side facing away from each other, and wanting so bad to turn over and try and talk or kiss her and tell her that I love her.
But I didn’t know what to say.
And more than anything I was terrified of what her response might be. I wasn’t really worried about her getting angry. In someways, it would have been a relief if she got angry.
At least some emotion would have given me something.
Indifference is so much worse. It rips your heart into pieces.
You look them in the eyes and you can’t stop thinking, “Where are you? Don’t you know who I am anymore, because I don’t know who you are?“
You’re living in a relationship that is cold and dead. And it’s weird, because you used to be so happy and in love.
And you’re living together and you look the same, but you’re not.
All that is left are broken memories of what once was, like picture frames that have been knocked to the floor and shattered.
You can still see the memory, but
it’s like you are looking through broken glass.
A constant reminder of something you wish you could forget,
and at the same time you would give anything to get back.
It wasn’t until that night at the dinner table that I realized our marriage was in real trouble. I couldn’t sleep that night.
I cried so hard my chest hurt, my head was pounding, and all my strength was gone, until I just sat there in silence;
HOPELESS. EXHAUSTED. BROKEN.
Here it was 2 o’clock in the morning, and I was had given up.
But I wanted to remember, if only for a moment, who we used to be.
And so I pulled some boxes down from the attic trying to find the video of our wedding. But it was something else I found in an old partially crushed cardboard box that changed everything for us.
Inside that box, buried beneath a stack of old books and magazines,
What I learned that night literally transformed our relationship and saved our marriage. And now, even after 20 years of marriage, and everything we have been through,
We are still CRAZY about each other. Today our marriage is filled with
LAUGHTER, LOVE, TRUE FRIENDSHIP, PLAYFULNESS, PASSION, EQUALITY, MUTUAL RESPECT, and CONSTANT CHAOS!
Yes, I did say chaos. We have 4 children together, (Dustin has 5 children), 3 dogs, and 1 cat.
It has been a crazy ride so far.
Our lives didn’t get any easier after that. Things just got more complicated.
Isn’t that the real test of the marriage saving secret we learned?
We went through an exhausting and traumatizing family court battle regarding my daughter.
We were sued by business partners costing tens of thousands of dollars.
We lost everything including our home and cars.
And my first born daughter..We love her. I love her. She has grown into a beautiful, strong young woman.
Looking back now, I still can’t believe it all started with those love-letters I found in our attic.
We sometimes just laugh at how crazy it is, all we have been through, and how crazy happy we are together.
For years friends would ask us what our secret was, and we would just blow it off. Usually, we would make a joke or something. We never considered putting together a program to help other people who are struggling to save their marriages and relationships.
We just never really thought about it.
the night Ben came knocking at the door at 2 am in the morning.
You could tell he’d been crying.
His voice was shaky and raspy from pleading. Crying.
Begging his wife to stay.
As he paced back and forth, rubbing his upper arms, and painfully staring into nowhere, he said she sprang the news on him right out of nowhere. He said it felt like being punched in the gut.
After 7 years of marriage and without warning, she just told him the news. She said she wasn’t happy.
My heart sank. He said he could see now that the signs had been there for years. Looking back he could see it now. We cried together.
I didn’t go back to sleep that night. That is when I decided I had to do something. I had to share what I’ve learned.
Kayti and I made the decision that we had to share what we had learned with the world.
We both knew the principles we learned in those love letters not only saved our marriage from divorce, but also helped us to stay in love all these years and maintain a happy marriage and relationship.
But here’s the thing. I knew that what I learned from my grandparents worked for us. But had to find out if other people knew about this also. I guess I wanted something that would validate what I had learned and why it worked so well.
And so every day after work, I stayed up into all hours of the night drinking coffee and reading everything I could about love and relationships and marriage.
I bought courses from the top relationship gurus and marriage coaches. But it seemed like so much of what I found was just the same old information regurgitated over and over.
I read books on what makes a happy marriage and how to save your marriage. I also scoured the Internet night after night reading stories about couples who had been married for 30, 40, and even 50 years or more.
As I read these beautiful stories, I started seeing a familiar connection between the things they said and did and what I learned from my grandparents.
It gave me chills because this gave me the inspiration and the validation, I needed that my grandparents really did know something about marriage and how to keep the love alive (even if they didn’t know why).
At some point in my research, I stumbled across a
I learned that this euphoria that we experience when we are in love can be explained by the neurochemistry of the brain. When we meet someone new and fall in love it stimulates a cocktail of chemicals in our brain. These include dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin.
I could see so clearly now.
This explained how and why what I had learned from my grandparents worked so well to save our marriage,
and to help us stay happy, and crazy in love all these years.
I was fascinated and I wanted to learn more.
And so I searched the Internet to see what else I could find on the subject. I found an article called “Love and the Brain” by Richard Schwartz and Jacqueline Olds, two Harvard Medical School professors and couples therapist who had done a research study on how love evolves and how it collapses.
I learned that the stages of romantic love are closely linked with the neurochemistry of the brain.
This explained why it’s different when we first meet someone. It also explains what happens when love grows cold,
but, here is the really exciting part…
The science actually supports that
All of this explained why what I learned from my grandparents worked so well in saving our marriage and…
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Originally posted 2022-09-05 14:41:57.
